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No thanks When will I feel like having sex
again?
When there is a new baby in the house mom and dad may often
feel very close to each other. However, you may feel you don't
have the time, interest or energy for sex. Hormonal changes
after birth can also make a woman feel less interested in
sex.
There are ways to show love for each other besides sexual intercourse. In the first weeks cuddling, kissing and mutual touching are some other ways to be close.
Will I notice any changes in sex after birth?
Your vagina may be drier, especially if you are breastfeeding.
Using a lubricant can help. More foreplay before sex increases
your body's natural lubrication. Other lubricants are: KY
jelly, spermicidal foam, cream or jelly and saliva. Your vaginal
muscles may feel loose. Kegel exercises will help you with
this.
When should I see a doctor?
- If intercourse is painful. This may be a physical problem.
- If you or your partner are worried about a decreased sexual
response.
- If you feel depressed for more than a few weeks after giving
birth. These feelings may go along with a decreased interest
in sex.
- If you experience a sudden increase in vaginal bleeding.
- If you have a fever higher than 38 degrees Celsius (100
degrees Fahrenheit)
Is sex okay if I'm breastfeeding?
Having sex will not affect breastfeeding. It is okay to touch
the breasts during lovemaking with the hands and/or the mouth.
Some couples will not enjoy touching the breasts if they are
sore or if milk leaks. To stop leaking, apply pressure to
the nipples and/or feed the baby before sex.
Some women experience feelings of arousal during breastfeeding
- this is completely normal.
Some partners feel jealous when the baby is breastfeeding
- discuss these feelings together.
What about birth control after childbirth?
You can get pregnant as soon as four to six weeks after giving
birth, even if you are breastfeeding. Discuss birth control
methods with your partner, and your doctor or a public health
nurse as early as possible. You can also call the Parent Talk
Line for information on different birth control methods or
call the region's Sexual Health Centres.
IMPORTANT: See your doctor or midwife six weeks after the baby is born for a check-up and to discuss your birth control options. Make an appointment earlier if you think you are ready to resume sexual intercourse.
For more information, contact the Parent Talk Line at 905-688-8258 or 1-888-505-6074 extension 7555
